Looking at What is Control
When someone is 'out of control,' what are the characteristics emotionally, mentally, verbally, physically? If someone is drunk or impaired in some way behind the wheel of a car, that person presents a danger and a hazard to others being on the road driving. They weave in and out of their lane, speed up or slow down at odd and strange times, don't obey the traffic signals and on and on.
So if someone is out of control in their playing, what does that mean? Are they a danger or a threat to other musicians in the ensemble? Do they not 'obey' the musically notations and do random things and act in their own timings regardless of what it says on the page? Do they not have the ability to hold notes steady and place their articulations evenly? Are they limited in their dynamic contrasts? If these are signs of being out of control, what are the causes?
Perhaps a very important question to ask is "What is controlling the person?"
There is an interesting relationship between concentrate, center and control. If someone is not in a stable place in themselves, or they can't find their 'center,' control can be challenging. If a person is unable to concentrate, (act on center), then loosing ones place in the music and other things can start to go awry.
Control is being able to do what we need to do, in the way we want to do it, when we want to do it (or have to do it in the way someone else wants us to do it).
Control is having the ability to do something effectively.
Control has a spectrum of skill or lack there of.
Control is a harmonious relationship between our mind and body where they both work in synchrony with each other. (Coordination is an important ingredient in having control).
Control is being able to stop or go when we want or need to.
Control is in the transitions.
Control is not a small little tight box with hardly any room to breathe.
Control is not limited to certain dynamic contrasts or tone colors.
Control is having flexibility to change and move beyond our comfort zones when needed.
Control is conscious will in our actions that can be used in the attainment of our pursuits.
Having control is being be able to function with quality and to perform actions in accordance to what is called for in any given situation.
Study the relationship between skill and control. Can you have skill without control? Don't think so!
Think of many situations that call for control. To control our temper. To control our eating and drinking. To be in control of a situation.
To NOT control our friends or colleagues.
Control is having command over voluntary and involuntary systems. (Having control over our bladder is a good example)
If having control becomes a prison, then where does freedom come into it? Having freedom to be able to do, is this control?
If control becomes a musical concept and school of playing, is it attuned to the essence of the music? The finest control is to be open to the essence of the music beyond our biases and then have the assembly, musically and technically, to deliver it. This is where training physically, mentally and emotionally are important. All three are important because just having physical expertise will not bring the music to life. A person typing someone else's poetry does not make them a poet.